Paul’s relationship with Titus illustrates a principle he articulated to the Corinthians: the desperate need for spiritual fathers, not just teachers or guides. Anyone can provide information or even good advice, but spiritual fathers provide something deeper: relationship, investment, and personal example.
A spiritual father does what Paul did with Titus. He opens his life, shares his struggles, teaches truth in the context of relationship, and remains committed through both successes and failures. He doesn’t just transfer knowledge; he models godliness and provides ongoing support and accountability.
The modern church often lacks these kinds of deep discipleship relationships. We have excellent teaching, helpful resources, and numerous programs, but we may be missing the personal, long-term investment that produces mature disciples. Like Dan Schipper in the sermon testimony, we need believers who will pray for someone to disciple and then commit to that relationship.
Spiritual fatherhood requires courage because it means accepting responsibility for someone’s spiritual development. It requires humility because it means admitting we’re still learning while helping others learn. It requires faith because it means trusting God to work through our imperfect efforts.
The result, as Paul experienced with Titus, is not just individual growth but kingdom advancement. Spiritual sons and daughters become spiritual fathers and mothers themselves, creating a multiplication effect that transforms churches and communities.